The Lone Runner

David and I will be running the Marine Corps Marathon this coming Sunday October 25, 2009 in Washington, DC. This will be my 11^th and David’s 1^st full marathon! We have previously run two halfs together and are looking forward to our first full together!

For me, running marathons has been many things good (increased self-confidence and improved physical ability to name a couple) and some things bad (my feet are hideous and my quads are freakishly huge), but one thing that comes to mind as we approach this race is that in these past 5 years that I have been training, running marathons has really been lonely. Aww, come here and give me a hug. You know you want to!

I started out training for my first full marathon with a local running group in Phoenix called Racelab. I’m pretty sure that without them I never would have made it through the months or training or even made it through the race. I’m immensely grateful to that group and everything that they taught me. While running with this group I also gained a group of running friends who I felt a sense of community with. I did speed workouts at a track with the group on Tuesdays, and sometimes did my long runs with a partner or group on Saturdays. Meeting up with the group was a bit inconvenient because of the location and as my job became more demanding it was easier for me to just train alone. So from marathon two through ten, I have trained alone.

Speed Workouts At The Track

I don’t mind running alone and many of my long runs have allowed me to take time to reflect on my life, myself, my friends and family, and my goals. I enjoy the time with myself most of the time and running has been an outlet for me to think, vent, plan, and regroup.

Going through training for a marathon alone though is what is lonely. Being the only one you know who is getting up early to run five days a week for 3-4 months is a bit isolating. Being the only one of your friends who can’t go have fun on a Friday night because she has to get up at the crack of the dawn is just downright sad at times. Aside from a few other runners that I know, there weren't people in my immediate circle who knew what I was going through and who I could discuss the ins and outs of my training with without making their eyes roll back into their heads. I think that training for a marathon is like having a second job, and if you had no one to talk to about the daily ups and downs of you job, wouldn't you be a bit sad?

Enter David Allen into my running life!

David had never run a road race before I talked him into the Run and Stride With Pride 5K in my neighborhood last June. He talked a big game before the race and was completely convinced that he’d beat me because A – he’s a guy (guys just run faster than girls), and B – he’s always been an athlete. (And probably C – I’m pretty clumsy and uncoordinated and the word athlete doesn't exactly come to mind when you look at me.) Sure, he knew that I had been racing for years and had run short and long races with decent times, but still, he was convinced he’d beat me. Guess what? I kicked his butt!

David After The 5K (Not Happy!)

He ran off and on casually after that but it was several months later that he said that he’d like to train for a half-marathon. I was so excited and quickly made him a schedule, we picked a race, and started and crossed the finish line together! (Technically my foot hit the mat first, but with my non-chip shoe, so he came in before me in the official race results. Darn!)

Austin Half Marathon Finish

After running his first half he had the bug for a full, but it wasn't until after he came to watch my last marathon (Rock N Roll San Diego – June 2009) that he was ready to go for it. We looked around for a while to pick a race and finally decided on the Marine Corps Marathon in Washington DC in October. At the time that we had decided to run, registration for the race wasn't open yet. We put the date on our calendars and on the second day that registration was open we registered for the race. Good thing we did, it sold out all 30,000 spots by the fourth day! Wow, talk about a popular race. The Marine Corps Marathon is totally the new pink!

The Marine Corps Marathon

Vermont Teddy Bear

I put together an 18-week training schedule for us and off we went on our training! It has been a lot of fun over the past few months to train together and talk endlessly about running. We discuss our morning runs, our strategy for our long runs, what we ate before and after, what we wore, what the weather was like, what interesting running news we saw that week online, what cool new running shoes are coming out, what the difference is between the various colors, flavors, and mixtures of sports drinks, etc. Bet you’re sure glad now that I’m not boring you to tears with these topics! (In case you want to read my thoughts on various running fuels, check out this entry: Fueling For The Long Run)

We are now on our last week of training and I’m really looking forward to putting all of our training to the test. One of the things I love and hate about the marathon is that no matter how much you prepare for the race, race day can throw something at you’re that you’re totally not prepared for and make your race wonderful or miserable. I’m really hoping for “wonderful” for this race and I’m pretty confident that it will be since we will be running together. I finally have a marathon partner after all these years and this lone runner will no longer be racing the 26.2 miles alone.

Thanks David! I can’t wait for our race on Sunday.